It was an intrepid, sultry summer, that summer of ’75 my family and I drove from Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, to Paris, France; however, I will never forget the death of King Faisal earlier in the year, when all of Saudi Arabia mourned the king’s death for three days. All activity suddenly came to a halt. An aura of serenity permeated ubiquitously, as there was no school and we were obliged to remain on the compound.
Are we the only Americans crazy enough to drive from Jeddah to Paris? I ask myself. I will especially miss the good life on Raytheon Compound—our giant playground with the ultimate freedom, as we opened the door almost three hundred sixty-five days of the year to sun, sand, and the Red Sea.Jeddah’s daily dramatic sunsets seen through our dining room window remain an indelible memoryas the sun—neither yellow nor orange but a hybrid—creates an incandescent sky of irregular streaks across the downy clouds, exuding warmth, happiness, and eternal love to all humankind. Like a harvest moon, rising during a late midsummer’s night to the heavens and beyond. An orange setting sun meshes with the yellow of a high-noon sun above us—an overpowering, perfectly round ball; yet at the same time, appearing smooth as velvet. After this spectacular show, remnants of a peach-colored horizon and an illuminated beginning crescent moon rise toward Venus and Jupiter, emanating a peaceful romanticism.
I shall miss Jeddah’s exotic souqs (markets). Walking with the hot sun beaming down on us, through winding alleyways lined with shops or, literally, holes in a wall, selling pots and pans, gold, clothes, fabric, footwear, shirts, toys—everything you need is available in the souq. If you wanted to buy gold, you would go to the illuminated gold souq—my favorite. If you wanted to buy fabric, you would go to the fabric souq, and so on. Amidst a huge maze of souqs are smaller souqs of lit-up alleyways of exotic spices and smells—namely incense and cardamom. Owners try to get you to step into their shop but won’t harass you if you go next door—although sometimes they lure you into their shop with a cup of shy (a sweet mint tea). As well as the mystical aura, Jeddah offers its three-tier white minarets and a conical top rising above the city’s tall date palms decorating asphalt roads alongside the red and sand-colored tiled sidewalks with white-and-black-checkered curbs and the traditional red-checkered headdress, ghutrah, and long white thobes men wear. In addition, the five-story or more white mud houses are adorned by dark-brown or bleached wood-colored overhanging balconies and their lacelike appearance as Saudi women gracefully move about fully covered in their black abayas.
Finally, yet importantly, foreverto be happy, like that young girl growing up on the American compound is all I ever want.
At age 15, along with my 13-year-old brother, Dennis, Mom, Dad, and I live with 110 other families in between three massive nine-foot-high walls, running the length of five rows of 20 houses each on either side of the guard gate. All houses (except for the one belonging to the
man in charge of Raytheon Company) are single-story square white cement buildings with a flat roof, an open-air patio on each side, and a small carport attached to the side of the patio. Every room has an air-conditioner. Upon entering the compound, we sign in at the guard’s gate. As Jeddah’s daily intense heat instantly slams against my body, it is a refreshing relief swimming in the Olympic-size pool adjacent to the snack bar and nearby recreation center, equipped with two Ping-Pong and pool tables. Across the dirt road we play basketball on a court overlooking the mile-long dirt pier extending into the Red Sea and its huge raised-rock jetty at the end. Free movies three times a week at the open-air performance stage across from the recreation center are the highlight for the week. If Dennis and I have all our homework finished, we sprint down the dirt road—lawn chairs over our shoulders—joining our friends already comfortably nestled on blankets, chairs, or sitting on the cement floor with popcorn and soda. Situated in the middle of the floor is a tall, narrow projector booth, where a parent volunteers to run a two- or three-reel movie projector. Wait Until Dark is our feature film tonight.
Three tennis courts are at one end of the compound, with the softball field at the opposite end. Each morning at eight-thirty two yellow school buses park across from the stage, transporting all children to the Parent’s Cooperative School (PCS)—grades K-9—to downtown Jeddah.
Two months prior to moving, the auto body shop owner calls to say that our white Mercedes 230 Sedan has arrived from Europe, ready for pickup. After withdrawing 30,000 riyal from the local downtown bank, Dad places them into a brown paper bag, folding it tightly under his arm, ready to buy our car. Arriving at the white cement shack at five o’clock, he finds the shop is closed. Dad returns to the office, leaving the bag of riyal on his desk until tomorrow.
“Where is our new Mercedes?” Mom, Dennis, and I chorus.
“The shop closed, so I will pick it up tomorrow.”
Early next morning Dad spots the brown paper bag in the middle of his desk. Shortly, he realizes that he forgot to lock the door overnight. Quickly grabbing the bag, he finds the 100-riyal notes are in the exact position from yesterday, all 300 of them. No one in Saudi would dare touch it.
In the intense morning heat, loading the last suitcase, Dad slams the trunk of our glossy white Mercedes shut and shouts, “Is everyone ready to roll?” Mom sits up front, Dennis jumps in behind Mom, and I sit behind Dad. I feel the onset of butterflies in my stomach. We wave good-bye at the guard as he raises the bar one last time.
“Hey, Dennis, are you psyched?”
“Nah, not really, I would rather be flying.”
“Yeah, me too,” I answer.
Dennis is reading The Hobbit. We follow the main road—the only road—to Tabuk. I lean my head against the left window as I look out front to decipher the black slickness that suddenly appears in front of us on the asphalt, then disappears. Bugging Dennis, “Let’s have a contest to see who can count the most mirages.”
“Guys, it is time to turn off the air-conditioner for a while.” Dad sighs.
“Fine,” we all reply in unison.
Amidst the surrounding desert—with the escarpment covered in yellow-brownish vegetation and an endless mixture of dirt, gravel, and sand alongside the edge of the road and an occasional green tree rising above—we continue our journey. Suddenly, beyond the mirage, appear two brown camels and a Bedouin dressed in the local gray thobe, a red-checkered ghutrah all the way down to the shoulders, tied in front with a tagiyah underneath so that it won’t slip off, exposing only his eyes. Carrying a long stick, he swats his camel, making him run. We stop and stare in amazement at these graceful creatures. Late that evening we arrive in Tabuk, leaving me with no recollection of the city as we depart the next morning for Amman, Jordan.
Dennis and I wake up to Dad’s loud shriek. “Wake up, wake up; we are at the border of Saudi Arabia and Jordan, guys.” In the middle of the road, two guards are praying with their machine guns next to them on the ground. All we can do is wait. The guards rise off their knees and grab their machine guns, placing them over their shoulders.
“As-Salamu Alaykum, Hello,” they say.
“As-Salamu Alaykum,” Dad replies, handing them our passports.
“How long are we staying here, Dad?” Dennis mumbles, yawning.
“A few days.”
Mountains surround us as we approach Amman’s gleaming white stone houses dominating the surrounding hills. After registering at the five-star Intercontinental Hotel, we freshen up.
“Let’s check out the remains of the amphitheater not far from here,” Dad suggests.
We walk up the hill filled with various green trees, and the remains of an impressive amphitheater—carved deeply into the side of a hill, a half-bowl filled with rows—remind me of an ancient Roman ruin. Downtown souqs covered in white cloth canopies run along stone sidewalks, as men wearclothes similar to Westerners, and women do not always wear an abaya, exposing their faces.
The atmosphere is fun, friendly, and safe in Amman, I think. A vendor wearing his traditional cranberry-colored fez (a shortened cone hat with a long black tassel attached in the back) and shirt covered by a black vest, with a tray of small, clear glasses and paper cups attached to a strap around his shoulder, carrying his tall, shiny brass gawa pot attempts to lure us for a cup of coffee. Following closely behind is a vendor selling pink, yellow, red, and white snapdragons and marigolds. On top of Citadel Hill we see the remains of columns and shortly thereafter a great temple. Dad explains to us that the columns are of the Roman period, and this is the Temple of Hercules.
Continuing our journey onto Jerusalem, we visit the enormous Wailing Wall in an enclosed large courtyard. An air of serenity permeates throughout the courtyard as people walk around or wait in line either to kiss the Wall or to stand praying. Men often wear suits with black hats or simply yarmulkes like the boys. Dad reminds us that the Dome of Rock on the TempleMount is nearby. Even far afield, a mesmerizing gold dome majestically lures you toward it. Against a clear aquamarine sky, a vast sun shields its divine masterpiece—an octagonal, intricate, blue-hue tiled backdrop of various yellow, dark-blue, and white tiled, arched windows embellished with green tiled lattice and beautiful white Arabic scripture above—which appears sacred. A mix of white-, rose-, and black-colored marble Roman-looking columns defend the entrance.
This heavenly spot awakens my spirit. Beyond the clusters of zigzagging trees—Dad informs us that they are olive trees—this surrounding view is intensely divine as we also visit the Church of the Holy Sepulcher. “This church marks the place where many believe Jesus was buried and raised from the dead. It is the holiest site in Christianity. Guys, this is the Via Dolorosa,” Dad mentions, reading from his clutched green Michelin guide.
“What’s that?” Dennis and I chorus.
“It’s the same path Jesus walked.” Dad raises his voice an octave. We can tell by the tone of his voice that we had better listen. We are reliving history. Especially so, since we visited Jesus’ tomb and see remnants of buildings dating back to before Christ—it is overwhelming. Erect, well-maintained columns at least thirty times taller than we are, with beautifully adorned bird designs, bring me back into the Roman Era. The Biblical sights are an indelible memory.
Arriving in Damascus, Syria, the next day, we promenade along Souk al-Hamidiyeh—a long, exotic walk under domed alleys of illuminated stalls where friendly people buy slaughtered animals, textiles, jewelry, chessboards, and inlaid mosaic boxes as well as general goods. Men smoke the narghile (water pipes for smoking) wearing Western-style clothing, with their wives sitting next to them. Older women wear long-sleeved dresses down to their feet and wrap white or black scarves around their heads, exposing their faces; otherwise, pants and blouses are permitted.
Next stop Homs, Syria, where a formidable fort, Crak de Chevaliers (Castle of the Knights), sits majestically upon a hill protecting its environs below. On our way to Palmyra, alongside the road, castles speckle the desert—suddenly, mud brick beehives appear with narrow slits in the front. Not a soul is in sight.
Throughout the three-hour afternoon drive, staring at the Syrian Desert, persistent thoughts swirl around in my head—What are we doing here in the middle of nowhere? Suddenly, a distant desert landscape of crumbled ruins creeps upon us—about a mile of stone column remains. “We are in Palmyra.” Dad yawns.
Our hotel is a small, flat, square, limestone building in the middle of nowhere with two airy rooms and a bathroom. I throw my suitcase upon the bed, rummaging for my shampoo—like the lonely, dust-covered cowboy after a long day on the horse, throwing his gun onto the bed in the small room with the open window, feeling the hot breeze. Entering the bathroom, I turn on the tub water. Brown, rusty, musty-smelling water gushes into the porcelain tub. I do not remember if I washed my hair. An hour later Dad jokes, “At least you have water in the middle of the Syrian Desert.”
Early next morning, upon a slab of stone in front of the hotel—a questionable terrace, no doubt—breakfast is Syrian round bread and a block of stale cheese and bottled water. We only drink bottled water.
“This is all we have.” The man smiles. “Are you Americans?”
“Yes,” we all chorused.
Doubling back on the road to Palmyra heading toward Aleppo, we stop overnight in Aleppo. Suddenly, a humongous medieval fortress on top of a huge mound—looking like an upside-down plate,I imagine—appears, overlooking the city beneath (a beautiful mixed landscape of mosques, domes, minarets, and houses). We tour the fort for over an hour. “Guys, you are visiting the oldest inhabited city in the world,” Dad exclaims.
“Cool, man!” Dennis and I scream.
Driving toward Alanya, high above the city, we see the remnants of an old castle seaward wall with breathtaking views over the choppy Mediterranean, protecting tugboats, ships, and a sprawling city—a mixture of red-roofed houses and buildings both modern and old. After a day here we continue our drive.
“Wow! This area is out of this world.”
“What is the name of this place, Dad?”
“Cappadocia.”
Looking beyond the vegetation and green trees toward the plateaus, I cannot believe the size of those gigantic cone-shaped rocks.
“Over time wind and rain formed these odd-shaped rocks,” Dad recites.
Soaked in the sun’s golden hues, suddenly a gigantic facade of smooth white rock with conelike formations at the top and square, jagged-edged openings—windows? I wonder—appear in front of me. Along the hard stone walkway, square grooves appear to be steps leading up to the rock.
“Can we go inside?” Dennis inquires.
“Sure.”
Inside the tunnel men sell dates, corn, and Turkish spices and potatoes. Throughout this gorge, sometimes only three huge chimneylike rock formations stand in a cluster in the middle of lush green vegetation. Elsewhere, they take over the gorge or situated together form a huge wall alongside the plateau. We stay overnight in this bizarre place.
We are on our way to the ancient city of Ephesus near the Mediterranean Sea. A grandiose amphitheater rising above the hill overwhelms me with its fanlike appearance. The grand theater is a semicircle surrounded by other Romanlike remains—some intact or in ruins. Protecting this grand theater is a wall of tall, arched windows—some intact, others crumbled— connecting each other. Far below is the small round stage with three rows of erect columns amidst a pile of debris. A rather long marble pathway—possibly the main boulevard, I tell myself—stretches away from the theater. The sun’s rays beam across this amphitheater, producing a grayish-white hue—its columns resemble white marble. An arched portico supported by four marble columns—two round, two square—with tops of intricately adorned figurines, animals, leaf designs, and etched, beadlike rows embellish this royal room. Guarding the entrance are two tall marble columns—one with a smooth marble finish—the other an adorned, circular, fluted column.
“Stay there, Carina, while I take a picture,” Dad screams from afar.
Am I the queen in her royal dressing room? I think.
After a night in Ephesus, we continue our royal tour to Pergamon. There is nothing left here.
We stop for a couple of hours on a beach alongside Izmir’s beautifully adorned coastline of modern buildings and hotels.
We enter Troy through excavated, deep stonewall paths. Half-crumbled columns or portions of the ruins’ walls meander extensively throughout this ancient, hilly plateau.
Istanbul’s Intercontinental Hotel balconies hover over us as we swim in the ice-cold Mediterranean and Black Sea. A refreshing treat compared to the average temperature of 95 degrees Fahrenheit.
Strolling downtown through a huge souq, where everything is available, Dad barters with a vendor to buy a red, blue, and orange rug. With our rolled-up rug placed over the armrest in between us the length of the car, we take the bridge over the BosporusStrait to the other side of Turkey. Along the banks lie opulent palaces, delicate mosques, fortresses, and traditional Ottoman mansions. Seen from afar, six elegant minarets protecting the beautiful Blue Mosque mesmerize me—suddenly, I feel transported to another world—a scene from the Arabian Nights. After visiting all the sights and exotic souqs, Mom and Dad sing, “This is a wild city!”
Three hours later we arrive in Sofia, Bulgaria, book into the HiltonHotelSofia, and are off to visit the National Assembly Square, including the St. Alexander Nevski Patriarchal Cathedral, an impressive five-layered stone monument. The main gold dome has a commanding position over a number of bluish-green half-domes. Next stop is KingLiberatorMonument, a black statue atop his horse, erect on a white cement block. Protecting the king, below is a statue of soldiers on horses posing atop a huge white stone that dominates the square. The mixture of cobblestone streets, gypsies with open-air, cart-drawn buggies, cathedrals, and very old buildings make for an interesting blend in this beautiful city.
Onward to Bucharest, Romania. We awake to a tapping on Dad’s window. Dad stirs as he rolls down the window, face-to-face with a police officer.
“You are not allowed to sleep in a gas station. You must leave.”
“All hotels are full,” Dad responds.
Ignoring the police officer, Dad pulls into another closed gas station, and we all soon fall asleep again and, shortly thereafter, awaken to the early-morning sunrise. I vaguely remember Dennis lounging on the top of the car as Dad screams from across the courtyard, “Both of you come and look at this cathedral now!”
We march over to pretend that we are impressed. Bucharest offers a mixture of architecture between Orthodox churches, mansions, as well as the stark Stalinist buildings of the communist years.
No sooner, we are on our way to Transylvania to visit Dracula’s castle. Perched atop a hill, this formidable white castle with circular and conelike red roofs protects its surroundings. Transylvania is a wonderfully romantic area full of mountain peaks rising up to the sky above wooded valleys, sparkling streams, and high-roofed wooden churches. As a fifteen-year-old visiting Dracula’s town, this would be way too cool telling my friends—I imagined.
The next day we arrive in Budapest, Hungary, with a mesmerizing view of the ParliamentBuilding along the Danube. Hills surround us where the old buildings blend with the modern architecture—creating an harmonious, peaceful, yet ever so stunning view along the Danube.
During dinner, we order spicy Hungarian goulash—surprisingly filling with chunks of beef.
On our way to Vienna, Austria, Dad asks us, “Are you guys interested in seeing a horse show?”
“Of course!”
These royally adorned, graceful white stallions trotting in perfect harmony around the huge ring amaze me repeatedly. Today I can taste the huge Wiener schnitzels served with fries. The next day we drive to visit Tante (Aunt in German) Helga, Uncle Herbert, Ina, and Sylvia in Grafenau, near Passau, Germany. Dancing in the tenne, a German disco, and eating Gummi Bears and chocolate Mozart marzipan (almond paste enveloped in chocolate) is always a highlight visiting my cousins. We leave for Nuremberg, where I was born. The Christkindlsmarkt (Christmas Market) in front of the Frauenkirche (Church of our Lady) was always my favorite scene during Christmas. A surreal, illuminated Hauptmarkt (main market) with decorative wooden huts of gluwein (hot mulled red wine), bratwurst (long, thin sausages) roasting creates a romantic aura. The aromatic air is saturated with sweet smells—a combination of warm lebkuchen (spicy molasses cookie), stollen (traditionally eaten during Christmas, a breadlike cake, sometimes with rum), other baked goods, and roasted honey peanuts—I want to eat the air, I tell myself. Next stop, Wiesbaden, Dennis’ birthplace and our home for four years—also home to the world’s largest cuckoo clock. The next to the last stop is quaint old Rudesheim on the Rhine—castles galore along the embankments of the RhineRiver.
“Du, soon we will be living in the most beautiful city in the world, as I promised,” Dad sings to Mom.
Driving over four thousand miles, our seven-week journey will soon be ending as we make our way into Paris. Pressing my nose to the window, “I can see the EiffelTower,” Dennis and I chorus in unison. Alongside the SeineRiver on Ile de la Cité, suddenly Notre Dame majestically appears in front of us, glowing under the five o’clock afternoon sun. I cannot help but notice the immensity of this cathedral along with her surrounding ornate, embroideredlike detail and gargoyles. At the front entrance an intricately designed large window resembles a lace crocheted doily. Notre Dame beams through the sun’s rays, and driving alongside her façade reemphasizes her incredible vastness. A combination of the incandescent lighting, Gothic architecture with surrounding rows of pink and red roses, myriad-colored flowers, and evenly groomed hedges swiftly captivates me in a time warp of infinite splendor.
What does a fifteen-year-old girl overwhelmed by Paris’ architectural delights do? I wonder.
During the summer of 1968, at age eight and a half, along with my six-year-old brother, Dennis, and Mom, we reunite with Dad in Saudi Arabia. He has been living in Jeddah for the past three months, preparing for our arrival.
“Guys, let’s go downtown to the souq (market) today,” Dad suggests.
Driving toward the souq in the intense morning heat, there is already a hotbed ofactivity.
“Wow, this is wild,” Mom shouts.
Men in white traditional thobes (a loose, white garment covering the whole body, down to the ankle) ride on mopeds and bicycles, buzzing alongside new and old American cars from the ‘60s. I constantly hear horns honking. A man in his traditional white thobe, flip-flops, and taqiyah sits sideways, steering his donkey-drawn wooden cart as he slowly passes by the cars. The taqiyah is a small white cap that keeps the ghutrah from slipping off the head. The ghutrah is usually of white cotton cloth, but many have a checkered pattern in red or black stitched into them. The agal is a doubled black cord that is used to secure the ghutrah in place. The bisht is the loose robe worn on top of the thobe by Arab men. They are often black and trimmed with beautiful golden embroidery.
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White and red ornamental flowers budding out of tall, green bushes, date palms, and green trees of various sizes decorate the road. Various shades of white or beige three-, four-, and five-story mud/stone houses—maybe higher—rise above the city. Some of them are falling apart, as a corner of the sidewall is in rubbles, but the rest of the house appears maintained. I wonder if anyone lives here, I think to myself.
Turquoise, various shades of green, dark-brown or bleached wood-colored overhanging balconies have a lacelike appearance, covering half a facade or an entire floor. Intricately carved wooden top and base panels appear crocheted. Occasionally windows are open, although we cannot see inside. At times, arched or square doorways are made of ornately carved wood painted blue or light green adorning the entrance. Continuing alongside a black-and-white-checkered curbstone, tall, thin-stemmed, round green shrubs, suddenly, a vanilla-white four-story stone building appears majestically in front of us. Coronet points—also in vanilla white—similar to the queen piece in chess beautify the roof. Around the roof’s trim a series of raised, white oval designs envelop two small circles next to each other with a dark center. They look like eyes. Dark-chocolate-colored overhanging balconies of meticulously carved and embossed wood embellish the middle of the building from top to bottom. Fourteen, tall arched-shaped windows with closed shutters of a vertical crocheted like design in a dark-chocolate color garnish each facade. Vanilla- white columns with a gold trim separate each set of windows. The house reminds me of the birthday cakes displayed in the Italian bakery back home.
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As Dad parks the car, children run and dance behind us, playing a sort of welcoming ceremony. Dad warns Mom and me: “Du, you and Carina should never come downtown alone. Women with blond hair and blue eyes do not exist.”
We begin our long walk down the dirt road, careful not to step into a crack or pothole. Banks with signs in English and Arabic hang next to the building’s facade. Pepsi and Coca-Cola billboards are everywhere. Sometimes the Pepsi sign is a picture of a red, white, and blue bottle cap with a blue “PEPSI” in the center. Another sign is next to it, but in the center is black Arabic writing with a white “PEPSI” encased in a red-and-blue icon. Men in traditional clothes stroll casually wearing either sandals or flip-flops. Sometimes they wear a dark-gray thobe, a light-colored shirt, and pair of pants or a black suit with a white shirt. There is no flow of traffic except for an infrequent car or truck outside a shop. Amidst the hustle and bustle, passersby clog narrow alleyways, examining the wares, socializing, or just strolling to take in what to buy. Above some of the shops is a small, sand-colored house with open turquoise shutters above small porches.
Suddenly, a three-tier white minaret with two circular porches, narrow windows, and a conical top rises above the city. Throughout the day, I hear a man’s voice calling from the top of the minaret: “Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar.” “God is the greatest, “Dad tells us and continues.
“A Muslim is called to prayer five times a day (salat). The call to prayer is heard at dawn, at midday, about the middle of the afternoon, just after sunset, and at nightfall, about two hours after sunset.”
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In spite of the heat and flies everywhere, people go about their lives. Saudi women gracefully move about, fully covered in their black abayas—a long-sleeved, floor-length, loose garment worn over other clothing when a woman leaves the protection of home. The abaya covers the whole body except the face, feet, and hands. It can be worn with the niqab, a face veil covering all but the eyes. I do not see any part of the body as they glide through the streets resembling moving dolls. Some carry a stuffed blanket perched on their heads. Large and small round flat, Arabic bread neatly stacked as pancakes lie on glass shelves behind windowpanes in the stalls below houses. I often notice rows of two to ten bananas bunched up, dangling on string from a metal rod. Below round tin trays hold pyramid-shaped mounds of a variety of dried fruits, nuts, and spices—most of them I have never seen before. Sometimes wooden benches or cardboard boxes support the mounds of lemons and oranges, which lay one on top of one another in neat rows above the street. Dad knows a few Arabic words and carries his dictionary with him. I see him using his fingers whenever he discusses money.
“I want a Coca Cola,” says Dennis. “Let’s continue along the souq first, Mom replies.
“Dad, doesn’t anyone ever steal anything with everything out in the open?” I ask.
“Never. If you do, your hand is chopped off.”
Watermelons piled on top of one another lay in heaps on the sidewalk, resembling white and green soccer balls. I hear a man calling, “American, please, you look,” as he slices the watermelon in half, offering Dennis and me a wedge. The taste of sweet water soothes me in this heat. Dad hands him three riyal for a whole watermelon. One dollar equals four and a half riyal.
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We pass stalls with glass containers of sizzling, crispy chickens rotating on skewers. They make me hungry. The aromatic smell of roasting chicken reminds us to buy a few for dinner. A boy holding a large straw basket over his shoulders approaches Dad. He appears to be maybe 12.
“The basket boy wants to make a few riyal offering to carry our items. If we need help finding something, he will direct us,” Dad explains.
“Great,” we all chorused.
He places our watermelon into the large straw basket. Lifting it up off the ground over his shoulders, an indent on the bottom protrudes inward toward the top of the basket as he places his head snugly underneath. Tightly woven rows of straw surround it with a raised rim at the top. Our basket boy stands tall with his red-and-white checkered ghutrah over his taqiyah and glides gracefully across the dirt road. His left hand hangs comfortably at his side. With his right elbow bent, he raises his hand while his thumb and four lifted fingers support the bottom of the basket—effortlessly balancing it. He wears a regular butterscotch-colored short-sleeved shirt over a black-and-white-checkered skirt wrapped around his waist and flip-flops on his dark-skinned feet. He faithfully follows us as he utters an occasional “As-Salamu Alaykum” aloud. “What is he saying, Dad?” I ask.
“Hello.”
“Stay close to me, Carina!” Mom mentions.
As I hear Arabic spoken, it sounds heavy and strange—completely different from English. At the end of the road, we enter the main souq, with a covering, overhead protecting us from the sun. As if the genie uncorked his magic lamp and whisked us away to another world on
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his magic carpet. Walking along a narrow concrete or dirt road with cracks and holes, my armpits are moist with sweat. I am constantly waving away the flies as strange smells fill the air—a blend of everything spicy.
Holes in the wall on both sides of the street sell anything you desire. We walk zigzag sometimes through open-air alleys, with the hot sun beaming down on us. Similar to the expression “a hole in the wall,” I get to experience the expression firsthand, understanding its true meaning. Souq are winding alleyways lined with shops or, literally, holes in a wall, selling pots and pans, gold, clothes, fabric, footwear, shirts, toys—everything you need is available in the souq. If you wanted to buy gold, you would go to the gold souq. If you wanted to buy fabric, you go to the fabric souq and so on. Owners would try to get you to step into their shop but wouldn’t harass you if you go next door—although sometimes they lured you into their shop with a cup of shy (a sweet mint tea).
Amidst the huge maze of souqs are smaller souqs of illuminated alleyways of exotic spices and smells—namely incense and cardamom. Six tin buckets filled with colorful mounds of spices sit atop wooden crates against a hole in the wall. They sting my nose. Red-and-blue-coiled hubbly-bubblies (water pipes for smoking) hang from nails high above various-sized boxes of tobacco. Up to now I see only men selling goods. Four women—young and old—wear dresses covering their arms and legs and straw hats over white shawls wrapped around their heads exposing their faces. Sitting in flip-flops, next to round tin pans
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propped on boxes, they sell small round, flat bread. In the stall near the spices is a fan-shaped white scale.
“You and Carina need to choose material for your thobes.”
“Our what?” Mom and I ask. “That is the word for the long dresses you will need to wear. Guys, here is the fabric souq.” Dad points.
A man sits behind a desk hidden in the back of the stall among every color and pattern imaginable. Rolls of fabric tightly wrapped around wooden rods are set next to, behind, and on top of one another filling up the entire hole in the wall. Mom points to the cotton fabric of blue, yellow, gold, orange, and white in a flower pattern. Picking up the rod of material, he unfolds it against the measuring stick under the glass countertop. He then unfolds the material five more times around his arm. When he finishes he cuts the fabric once with scissors and sets it aside. I point to the pink, yellow, orange daisy pattern made of cotton. The man yanks the rod tucked behind the others and places it on the glass counter. Speaking in Arabic, he measures and wraps our material in brown paper. Dad mentions that he is bartering. The man asked for 30 riyal and Dad offers 25. The man accepts 27 and Dad proudly says 26 after our basket boy rambles on. Dad hands the man 26 riyal. A man in a beige uniform standing at the counter of a stall chatting—having what appears to be a friendly conversation—with a man in dark glasses, wearing just a taqiyah and a white thobe sitting behind the counter.
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“Are those men in beige uniforms with thick, white belts and greenish flat hats policemen?”
Dennis inquires.
“Yes. Some are religious police—muttawa. They often carry sticks to click a person’s heels, reminding them to pray.”
“Everyone barters here, Du. Never accept the price they offer. It is normal to barter,” Dad reminds Mom.
My favorite stall is the illuminated gold jewelry stall.
“Joe, Carina and I are going to look at the jewelry.”
“Okay, Dennis and I will look at the watches here next to you.”
Gold and silver necklaces hang neatly under a glass countertop beaming in the sunlight. Silver necklaces—crescent- or square-shaped with beads—dangle underneath. Gold bracelets resembling large gold coins are stacked up high underneath the glass. So much gold glistens and blinds me that I do not know where to begin. Sitting behind the counter, a man yells in broken English to Mom and me, “Please, you come in.” Amazed, we step inside, looking at the glass countertop. Holding a thick gold bracelet, the man hands it to me to try on. I am not sure if I want to buy this one. Suddenly, on the bottom shelf, an elegant gold snake ring surrounded by green enamel and a cluster of ten tiny ruby stones mounted on a gold rim for its head and two rubies for the eyes intrigues me. I try it on my pinky carefully so that it does not become stuck. Dad arrives.
“Dad, I love this snake ring.”
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Dad begins to barter with the man. The man says 140 riyal—Dad mentions 130. Mom eyes a gold band. As she tries it on, the bracelet glistens. Straight-lined grooves about one quarter inch thick surround the entire bracelet. The man brings out some shy. I love its velvety smooth bittersweetness. We all take a sip out of tiny glass cups.
“Du, are you interested in this one?” Dad asks.
“I think so. I might even buy two.”
He also sells Bedouin jewelry over here. Dad points to the sparkling arch-shaped necklace hanging from a silver chain. As the man hands it to me, minuscule raised beadlike knobs outline the entire silver piece. Barely visible silver-coiled beads resembling thread with small marbles in the middle surround pinhead beads like clusters of grapes. Along the enter of the necklace, three silver diamond-shaped designs stand out among the many scattered squares.
Dad does his bartering and ends with, “Shukran.”
Mom wears her two gold bracelets as I wear my snake ring, watching the rubies glisten in the sunlight. The man wraps the silver necklace and hands Dad the brown paper bag. Across the way bulks of bananas hang above huge cone-shaped mounds of oranges and lemons. Blue, orange, and yellow ceramic pots next to tin pots hang on nails, as do lanterns decorating the entrance of the stall. Plastic water jugs sit neatly displayed along the sidewalk. There are crates of green 7 Up bottles stacked on top of one another next to the round bread. Dad arrives back with four ice-cold green 7 Up bottles and two big pieces of round Arabic bread. We gulp down the soda and swallow bites of fresh, hot bread as we continue along the souq. Rows of
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shoes laid out on rugs hang over the edge of the curb onto the dirty street. Across the alleyway, separate from the women, men’s and boys’ clothes hang on hangers suspended from a wooden stick nailed into the concrete walls outside the stalls. Among the bright-colored clothes, small red, blue, and orange rugs hang folded over a wooden rod. A small tilted box of nectarines lay on its side above the larger tilted box of oranges. A mound of lemons sits on a tin tray underneath a bunch of bananas hanging on string.
Men yell at us, “Please shy,” inviting you to drink and buy. Arabs are kind and helpful and enjoy bartering with Dad—at times laughing when Dad attempts speaking in his broken Arabic. Occasionally a man walking barefoot carries a wooden rod over his shoulders with large tin pots on both sides hanging from chains. Dad reminds us that we are trying to find the tailor that he knows about from work. Some stores sell household goods and food that needs refrigeration. As I enter the air-conditioned store, I enjoy a cool break from the heat. The store is small and I recognize some items as the word is in English and then in Arabic. Boxes of Tide detergent and Tang are available. Outside only men sit at tables in the street. A man with a stick, riding bareback, steers a donkey pulling a huge metal cylinder strapped and hooked onto wooden planks over two big tires.
Away from the covered souq, along a sandy road with loose brick rubbles, a woman in her black abaya showing a bit of red-and-black dress carries remnants of a green bush on her head and a small white lamb in her left hand. A man in his white thobe supports some type of skinned animal over his shoulders. In the open-air market, across from the display of watermelons, four-foot mounds of chestnut- or grayish-white-colored coiled wool lie on the dirt road. Fruit, lettuce,
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potatoes, carrots, onions, grains, vegetables, etc. lie exposed under the sun upon straw mats, under umbrellas, or on a wooden tray. Some vegetables I do not recognize. It is common to see a saddled camel with ten or more gracefully moving along the dirt road. Two camels lie next to the house under a handmade canopy of canvas and wooden beams, with a round tin bucket of water supported by a small pyramid of bricks.
We arrive at the tailor’s house. Ringing the doorbell, we hear “As-Salamu Alaykum.” We climb a steep set of stairs to the top entrance as a woman answers the door wearing a skirt and blouse. She escorts Mom and me into a hot room with rolls of fabric everywhere. The sewing machine is near the only window and fan, offering an occasional breeze from the sweltering heat. This delightful woman using hand gestures to communicate measures us. We hand her our package of fabric. She wraps us in our material from our neck down to below the ankles, making a bottom hem. She then wraps material around our arms as sleeves down to our wrists. She offers us shy.
Mom and I each drink a glass. The tailor gestures us raising five fingers and in broken English, says, “You come back khamsa days.”
We meet Dad, Dennis, and our basket boy at the entrance and head back to our white Volkswagen Beetle. As the basket boy unloads our goods into the trunk of the car, Dad reaches out, paying him three riyal.
Smiling and graciously opening his hand to accept three riyal, our basket boy yells, “Shukran, masalama.”
A week later we return for our thobes. Mom carefully tries on her new thobes one last time for safe measure. It has to cover us below the elbow and below the knee (no limbs can show), right down below the ankle. Once Mom appeared, I stepped behind the curtain, trying on my two
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new thobes. She then tightly packs our purchases in brown paper. Mom hands her about 50 riyal for all four.
Whenever we see huge watermelons sitting on the side of the hot asphalt for sale, we stop and pay the watermelon boy three riyal. Dad always cut up the watermelon to freeze the pieces. We later sucked on them as Popsicles. At the gas station a square, flat mud shack without a door—just an opening the size of the shack—has crates of Coca Cola and 7 Up bottles stacked on top of one another covering the entire facade of the gas station or stacked up high out front. These Coke bottles have the word “Coca-Cola” in red, and 7 Up bottles are green bottles, also with red letters. Across the way, under a canopy of tin pieces held in place by large stones and supported by four wooden posts, men sit at a small table or on a long straw bench, talking and drinking. Dad explains that they are drinking shy. A man in a white thobe is pouring out of a shiny, brass pot with a long.
thin spout into small, clear glasses. They also serve gahwah—coffee—in big or small brass pots. We often see men smoking from a mouthpiece attached to a long blue-and-red coil connecting to a beautiful ornate silver or brass stand.
Again, Dad tells us, “Sisha tobacco is smoked through these hubbly-bubblies (nargila or hookah) in friendly conversation.”
Geckos are everywhere. I frequently see them climbing up walls or staring at you ever so still, glued to the surface. It is extremely hard to catch them, as they are quick and nimble. When we returned to the villa after a fun-filled, hot day at the souq, Dennis and I reminded Dad, “You said that we could sleep on the roof tonight.”
“Did I say that?”
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“Come on Dad!” Dennis and I raise our voices.
Dinner consists of roasted chickens, salad that still had the remnants of the Clorox Mom used to clean the leaves, cucumber salad, watermelon, and big Arabic bread rounds. We brought the cots onto the open-air roof and slept under the Milky Way in the coolness of the night.
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